Some people care more about me than I care about them.
Some people I care more about, than they care about me.
But on average...
I am cared for just as much as I care about others.
Or I love just as much as I am loved.
Moreover, I am cared for and love in the same way I do others.
So, I could say all the warmth I give out comes right back at me,
one way or the other.

That way... I could say that how I treat others is how I am indirectly treating myself.
So, by loving others a lot when I am unhappy and hating myself...
I am actually trying to help myself by loving others,
knowing somehow I will get that love back?

Is love for others Always self-love as well?
Isn't there always a teeny selfish aspect about loving others?
Or are we making things too complicated like that?
And should just say we are all one entity,
in which love is love and nothing else?